1. Your significant Other announces (s)he's  having lunch with an ex tomorrow. You...: 

a. Protest loudly.  (s)he simply cannot go. It would kill you.
b. find someone to have lunch with to make him/her jealous.
c. trust his/her judgment. It's probably nothing.
d. convince him/her to spend time with you instead.
e. Let him/her go, but insist on equal quality time later.
f. Don't say anything, but secretly you can't get it out of your mind all day.
g. end up letting him/her do what (s)he wants, but you're pissy about it.
h. eh. Whatever.

2. Your SO loves the Dave Matthews Band. (S)he gets front row tickets for your birthday. You hate Dave Matthews...

a. but you go anyway, it's the thought that counts. Who knows? You might have fun.
b. you go anyway, but are not happy about it.
c. Go, but zone out for the whole show.
d. Convince him/her to sell the tickets and take you someplace you want to go.
e. Go, but  do something YOU want to do on his/her birthday.
f. Go, but be sure to get him/her tickets to a band (s)he hates for his/her birthday.
g. Go, but bring it up at every opportunity afterwards. What kind of moron wouldn't realize you hate Dave Matthews?
h. Agree happily, but suddenly become "sick" right before the show.

3. You are going to an important dinner party. Your SO is wearing something extremely unbecoming.  

a. You tell him/her gently, and suggest maybe (s)he change.
b. You say nothing to him/her, but make it clear to anyone who mentions it you think it's ugly, too.
c. You wouldn't want your SO to embarrass him/herself. Tell him/her to wear something else for his/her own good.
d. Tell him/her (s)he looks so good in that other outfit...you were hoping (s)he'd wear it tonight.
e. say nothing. It's none of your business, and you don't like to create waves.
f. It's doubtful that you noticed in the first place.
g. Make a big deal, (s)he's probably wearing that awful thing just to annoy you.
h. ignore it. Who died and made you the fashion god(dess) anyway? 

4. Some friends have invited you out for a fun night on the town, but you promised your SO you'd take him/her to the midnight showing of  Star Wars, which (s)he hasn't seen on the Big Screen since age 6.  

a. You turn them down, a promise is a promise!
b. You turn them down, but invite them to the show with you.
c. just go. What's the fuss?
d. Tell him/her you're really sorry but your friends hardly ever get together; maybe it'll be on the big screen again next year. 
e. You turn them down, you'd rather spend time with your SO.
f. Convince your SO to come out with you all instead.
g. Put up a fuss, aggrandizing the outing until your SO insists you go with your friends.
h. Of course you go out with your friends!

5. When do you fight?

a. you only fight defensively. You never start things, of course.
b. Never, your SO usually complies with your wishes.
c. occasionally, sometimes lovers' quarrels are inevitable.
d. rarely, and just over important things, you don't sweat the small stuff.
e. in public, where it has the most impact.
f. In the car, where I have his/her undivided attention.
g. fighting? What's that?
h. All the time. It keeps my SO on his/her toes. You never let anything go.

6. When you fight, who wins?
a. Me. 
b. My SO. I usually comply for the sake of harmony.
c. I'm always right, but sometimes I give in, as a leverage tool.
d. I always stomp out until I get my way.
e. Neither, we try to reach a mutual solution.
f. who cares? it's just fun to spar once in a while. It keeps things interesting.
g. we never fight. At least I don't notice that we do.
h. It depends, but when the SO wins I make sure (s)he knows how much I sacrifice to comply with his/her wishes. 

7. You and your SO move in together. (S)he wants to paint the kitchen yellow. You only like white rooms. You:
a. compromise with a white room with yellow trim
b. yellow is horrible. you threaten to move out unless the room gets painted white.
c. leave it the color it currently is forever, because you two can't agree.
d. Paint it white while your SO is away. (S)he'll get used to it. Who doesn't like a white room?
e. ignore the SO and go watch tv or read a book until (s)he changes his/her mind.
f. Find another color you both like.
g. Paint it yellow, because it doesn't really matter in the long run.
h. Yellow makes you physically nauseated. You convince your SO that white is for the good of your health.

8. Who do you hang out with the most?
a. your SO and his/her friends
b. your friends alone
c. your friends, and your SO hangs out with you all.
d. other couples
e. your SO, you don't have time for anyone else!
f. a variety of friends and acquaintances
g. whoever you can network with
h. mostly myself. I'm pretty busy and I need/enjoy my alone time.